Does love necessarily demand that you spend time with him/her? Aren't there other beautiful/essential things in life that tend to take up time or help you relax? Is the price of doing ones duty as high as losing your loved one to someone else? Most people feel that when he/she is ignored, love no longer exists. Years of faith and trust is lost in a fraction of a second. The worst part is losing your loved one to someone else. All because you were doing your duty!!!!
People often say that they are not being understood. What they don't realize is, they have never tried to understand others. You never know what burden is being shouldered at the other end. When circumstances demand, you need to divert your attention to other activities. Not towards your loves best mate. What difference would remain between a common dog and us if we jumped from one to other just for attention.
There is an interesting but familiar story. An urgent piece of work took up a lot of his time. The person he loved the most saw less and less of him over a period of 2 months. She meanwhile started corresponding with the guys best mate. And over a period of time the guy stood forgotten. New bonds developed. Old ones were broken.
Is that all that love has to offer? Is that the level of committment that love invokes? It is not the end of one relation, but two. At one point there was love in his life. Now all he gets is betrayal. The dilemma still remains as to who betrayed him. The one he loved so much or the one he trusted so much. Who is right and who is wrong? Does one have to pay so dearly for others to be happy? In time every one will move on with their respective lives but the scars will remain.
You take a knife and stab someone in the back, no amount of sorry will right the wrong. The wounds may heal but the scars will always remain. Love is about being patient, understanding and standing by one no matter what. Even to the peril of life. Only when things go out of hand you get a chance to prove that you are still there, no matter what. A little bit of patience and recovery time go a long way in building relations. Remember; if it is not happy, then it is not the end.
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I understand that there is some big reason behind this blog. The blog seems to be trying to fathom the path from love to betrayal and whether it is the path that should be taken. At the end, what I would say is: If spending less time with one's love because of work makes them break the relationship, then the love is really not worth it. Is it?
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